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    by Published on 08-24-2015 03:02 PM
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    Have experts told you something about your child that you see differently?



    I hesitated at the heavy glass doors of my sonís school. Iíd cheerfully walked in these doors many times. I volunteered here, served on the PTA board, joked with the principal and teachers, even helped start an annual all-school tradition called Art Day. But now I fought the urge to grab him from his first grade classroom, never to return.

    Iíd come in that morning hoping to discuss the angry outbursts my sonís teacher directed at several students, including my little boy. But I entered no ordinary meeting. It was an ambush. Sides had clearly been chosen. The principal, guidance counselor, and my sonís teacher sat in a clump together along one side of the table. Feeling oddly hollow, I pulled out a chair and sat down. Since I led conflict resolution workshops in my working life, I was confident that we could talk over any issues and come to an understanding.

    I was wrong.

    The counselor read aloud from a list of ADHD behavioral symptoms my sonís teacher had been tracking over the past few weeks. My little boyís major transgressions were messy work, lack of organization, and distractibility. The teacher nodded with satisfaction and crossed her arms.

    No one who spent time with him had ever mentioned ADHD before. I breathed deeply to calm myself. I knew it was best to repeat what I was hearing in order to clarify, but the counselor barreled ahead, saying they had a significant ďADHD populationĒ in the school system who showed excellent results with medication.

    After giving the teacher kudos for dealing with a classroom full of children and acknowledging the difficulty of meeting all their needs, I tried to stand up for my child (although I felt like a mother bear defending her cub from nicely dressed predators). I said the behaviors she noted actually seemed normal for a six-year-old boy, after all, children are in the process of maturing and are not naturally inclined to do paperwork. The teacher shook her head and whispered to the principal. The counselor said first grade children have had ample time to adapt to classroom standards.

    I asked if any of my sonís behaviors had ever disrupted the class. The teacher didnít answer the question. Instead she sighed and said, looking at the principal, ďIíve been teaching for 15 years. This doesnít get better on its own. Iím telling you this child can be helped by medication.Ē

    When I asked about alternatives such as modifying his diet the teacher actually rolled her eyes, saying, ďPlenty of parents believe there are all sorts of things they can do on their own. But students on restricted diets donít fit in too well in the lunchroom.Ē

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    Published on 08-04-2015 02:47 PM
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    3. Parenting

    The following webinar excerpt is from the Time4Learning Live webinar series, and the folks at Time4Learning were kind enough to share this organization-related clip with our members. You'll find our own admin Topsy leading the discussion in this one, as she has helped Time4Learning lead their past webinars on topics related to homeschooling and using the Time4Learning curriculum - - both subjects she has a lot of expertise with!

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